Bulbous nose worries are the worst. Sigh. Consultation review.

After seeing, hearing about, and experiencing failed bulbous nose surgeries, I had made up my mind that I would never even think about surgery. But recently, at a hospital I went to for a consultation on another area, the director looked at my nose and said that he could avoid the blood vessels running through the nose and remove all the soft tissue? That’s what he said. I have a typical fleshy nose. If all this soft tissue is removed, there would be nothing left of my nose. The bridge height is average, but the nasal tip is extremely high. Because of the soft tissue and septum.. It runs in my family. After hearing him speak with so much confidence, I somehow gained hope and went around to consultations here and there. As expected, bulbous nose surgery must be difficult; one plastic surgery clinic told me outright not to do it... that it’s easy to ruin.. -_-;; And I went to ㅇㅇㅎ, which is famous for noses. They told me to raise my nose. Wow. Even 3 mm at the nasal tip and 2 mm at the bridge. Maybe the theory is that it has to be raised to look slim from the front. Sigh. My nasal tip is already high enough that people ask if I’ve had it raised,. I don’t know if it’s okay to raise it. Is 3 mm a lot to raise it?? I’m now debating between that hospital that says they can remove a lot of soft tissue and ㅇㅇㅎ. At the first hospital, they said my nose is too high, so they would actually trim down some of the septum to create a more feminine image. They would raise the glabella area a bit, too. For the nasal tip, they would remove the soft tissue. If there were a guarantee that it would come out just as well as they describe, of course I’d want to do it there.. but there is no such guarantee. But ㅇㅇㅎ is so famous and said to have a lot of experience. I wonder if general fame also has meaning,, ahhh I’m so torn.