I’m someone who also posted because my surgery went wrong... and I’m also someone who read posts by people whose surgeries went wrong and left replies.
I wonder if it might help to switch perspectives a little... and put ourselves in each other’s shoes.
When someone writes a post because they’re already struggling so much and feel wronged after a botched surgery, hoping to get comfort or at least find some way forward,
comments that just blindly... cut everything short... and simply say, “Which clinic was that? ㅜ.ㅜ”...
To me... those felt so spiteful...... I understand that the person wants to avoid that clinic, but
Thankfully... if the writer is kind-hearted and wants to personally tell everyone which clinic it was, then that’s fine.
But on posts like that... maybe we should set aside the desire to get clinic information
and first approach them with a human heart,
with a sincere word of comfort and... actively... ways they might recover, or objective advice about surgery.
“You failed there, but I’ll definitely never fail!!!”
I’m sure people don’t mean it that way.... but as you know, plastic surgery is partly luck.
A clinic where I failed may be where someone else succeeds,
and a clinic where someone else failed may be where I succeed.
Honestly, I don’t think a “blacklist”... has much meaning...
I think you need your own luck... your own fortune too,
and the surgeon’s condition that day. lol also seems to play a role...
and whether my face is a good case for successful plastic surgery... seems important too...
After going through plastic surgery a few times, what I feel is..
You have to keep your heart and intentions kind.... for the things you do, everything you do...
even..... the plastic surgery you get seems to go well.
I guess I haven’t lived with a kind enough heart all this time.ㅜ.ㅜ.ㅜ. Sigh.ㅜ.ㅜ.
I think it would be good if we all refrained from leaving comments that become another wound to people already hurting from failure.
Everyone.... I hope you hold onto your sanity and get through the war with plastic surgery........
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