Please read this after looking at the post I wrote before.. I felt like I couldn’t just stay like this, so I thought I needed to come up with a plan with the place where I had buccal fat removal. They had also told me to come when I had sorted out my feelings, saying they would do fat grafting for me.. But it felt so unfair.. My nasolabial folds were already severe, and they made them much deeper, making me look like I have a protruding mouth even though I don’t. They made my mouth look like a monkey’s mouth, made my cheek hollowing visible even from the front without having to turn 45 degrees, and the sunken cheeks go without saying. My cheeks and skin used to be firm, but now they have no elasticity and look like a deflated balloon. And after buccal fat removal, because of cheek sagging, the flesh sagged as if it were flowing down to my jaw, making my face shape pentagonal? hexagonal? Is it over if they just do fat grafting? It’s obvious that as I age, it will get worse and lose more elasticity.. I felt so wronged that I thought I needed to go and have them take some kind of action. So I went and consulted with the doctor, but since I only have aesthetic side effects and it’s not like my mouth won’t move or I can’t eat, it’s literally an aesthetic side effect that happened, right? So they acted like they had done nothing wrong and kept trying to brainwash me, saying I was much better than before lol. My cheek hollowing also wasn’t severe and was only slightly visible because of my lateral cheekbones, but they said I originally had cheek hollowing. And when I said it sagged after buccal fat removal, they said that absolutely couldn’t happen lololol. They said buccal fat removal is not a surgery that causes sagging. Then what, did my skin suddenly sag overnight? lol Did a ghost come and go? They said the asymmetry was originally there too. No, I know best that I originally had asymmetry. But they made my already severe asymmetry look like I have a disability, and even when I say that, they absolutely won’t acknowledge it. Uneven nasolabial folds, uneven cheeks, then who did this? And then they said they would do jaw liposuction for me? So I said I heard that if I do that, it sags, and they said that’s not true. They said it doesn’t sag lololol. I don’t know why they lie at the end of every sentence, and I’m genuinely so angry and dumbfounded. And when I said people told me I looked so old and aged, they said people usually say that when someone suddenly loses weight, talking in that kind of way.. No, they say that because I look skeletal and gaunt like I lost weight.. They really did not acknowledge at all that they did anything wrong. The doctor said he has been doing buccal fat surgery for 10 years and never had a complaint like mine lolololol. When I heard that, all I could think was, “I’m speechless,” lolol. I’ve seen so many buccal fat removal side effects that I can’t even remember how many, and seeing them run a business so shamelessly made my anger boil up. I was harmed, but they won’t acknowledge the harm. There is a victim, but no perpetrator lol. They told me my case isn’t severe. Why does he get to decide that? And they kept saying things like, “Look at it objectively.” How can plastic surgery be objective? Isn’t it something that should be viewed subjectively? I really wanted to die so badly. And because my expression wasn’t good and I looked displeased, the doctor said that if I didn’t like it, they have someone in charge of legal affairs or a lawyer at their hospital, so I should proceed with that lol. But then he said neither side wants things to get ugly, right, and told me to talk about the rest with the counseling manager. My hands were shaking so much and I was tearing up, but I held it in and met the counseling manager. She told me that she also developed nasolabial folds after orthodontic treatment, so she regretted it so much, but what could she do, it was already done, and since she did it, she had to take responsibility for it. She was dissing me, right? lol Saying it for me to hear lol. And I really felt like only curse words were going to come out. And she told me I would have regretted it if I hadn’t done buccal fat removal lol. She said even if I dieted, I would have been stressed because it would bulge like a bulldog lol. She talked as if I had to do it anyway. Then she said they originally don’t even have to do fat grafting, but since the director said he would do it, they would do it when I wanted lololololololol. What on earth is this supposed to mean? Then she said if I didn’t like that, they would refund me. Even the refund wouldn’t be the full 600,000 won I initially paid, but 400,000 won lololol, after subtracting the thread cost lol. So when I said, “Then it would be better to receive fat grafting,” she said we should write a settlement agreement, so I said I would come next time and write it, left, and cried my eyes out.. The moment I settle, I’m the only fool, and I’m only 24, so everything feels so bleak.. Oh right, and they told me the thing I’m stressed about is not because of buccal fat removal. They kept saying it was originally severe. Am I stupid? Would someone who looks in the mirror every day not know that change? I was so wronged and suffocated that I couldn’t speak.. And they told me I just need to keep doing lifting treatments and things like that. I really thought, wow, there are people this shameless.. And they said if I diet and things like that, it could sag more and hollow out more. Before the procedure, they clearly told me that dieting after buccal fat removal would create a synergy effect lol. But now they say I shouldn’t diet lolol. They also say I shouldn’t get meridian massage because I could lose more facial fat.. No, is a person’s life a joke? Seriously, the people at that hospital said I’m just too sensitive. They said it’s not something that happened because of buccal fat removal. They said I originally had cheek hollowing and sunken cheeks, and that it’s because I did buccal fat removal. I really want to kill them.. Before going to the hospital, honestly, time had passed and I was in a state of resignation, and now I really had no feelings left.. If the hospital had just understood the feelings I was experiencing and said things that truly cared about me, I really wouldn’t have resented them. I thought I would just get fat grafting once, and as time passed, go to another good place and live my whole life getting fat grafting and lifting. But because they responded like that, I truly wanted to die so much. It feels like the world collapsed.. I know that if I take it legally, I will lose.. since I only have aesthetic side effects.. But the moment I felt that they did not understand the patient’s heart at all, I really collapsed.. I really want to die so badly.. I wish that if I sleep today, I just won’t open my eyes and will disappear forever.. I start each day blaming myself and end it blaming myself.. My self-esteem has already fallen to the floor, and I don’t have even 0.1% motivation or passion. I never want to travel, meet people, shop, or do things like that for the rest of my life... I really feel like this pain will end only if I die. Is it possible to live like this forever..? I don’t want to get fat grafting there, and I don’t want a refund either, but I really don’t know what I should do. It’s a dilemma..
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