I had nose surgery, but got inflammation..

I had my nose surgery in May.. But my nasal tip started turning red.. So I asked friends around me who had nose surgery, and they said maybe it's because it hadn't been long since the surgery, so I didn't think much of it. But it got so severely red that I went to the hospital in August.. They said it seemed like inflammation had developed, and that they would open the nose and try washing it out once, and if it didn't improve, the implant would have to be removed.. So I had surgery once, and 2 days later the doctor said the Gore-Tex would need to be removed.. So I had another surgery and had the Gore-Tex removed.. It was really shocking and upsetting, and I suffered a lot mentally.. And then the doctor said we should do revision surgery after 1 year.. He did say he would make it prettier then.. But people around me are telling me that the inflammation happened because the surgery was done wrong, and that I should get a refund right away and go somewhere else. I don't know what to do.. If I have revision surgery and it turns out like this again, I really think I'd feel like I want to die.. I really didn't do anything they told me not to do after surgery.. I didn't smoke or drink for over a month, ate well.. sigh.. Please give me some advice on what would be best.. Would it be better to have revision surgery again at the same place? Or would it be better to go somewhere else?