Know your own face before you go...

I really, really want to say this.. It was my first surgery, so I got help in this community from the person with the most comments and went to the hospital. That person was pretty to begin with.. Their side profile had a Han Ga-in feel... and most of all, people said there wasn't much difference, and later they said they wished the height were slightly higher.. I really dislike looking obviously operated on, and my face is round and cute in style.. So I didn't like a high nasal bridge. I wanted it raised only very slightly.. Today is exactly one month. The shape is really pretty. They said they carved 4 mm of silicone.ㅡㅡ;; Usually people say that if you do it too subtly, you'll regret it later, so when I went, I said I was worried my cute-looking face might disappear.. I used that kind of expression, meaning I was asking them not to make it too high. I also had the alar base reduced very slightly.. because I had a big bulbous nose.. Maybe because there was a lot of extra skin,,, or because patients often seemed to regret later that they should have gone a bit higher.. My nose at one month has changed my impression a bit. I should have gone in and clearly said, please raise the bridge only very, very slightly... It's my fault that I couldn't do that. The doctor seemed nice and was, how should I put it.. someone I could really trust... so I think I didn't say much when I went. I just thought they would take care of it.. What I really want to say is: think about how you want to change your own face.. Really think about it carefully, research a lot... don't assume too much that just because someone else's nose is pretty, that nose will also be pretty on you.. Go and say exactly what you want. The nose itself is really fine.. but for me, it's too high.. I wrote to other people to think positively... and I was also thinking positively, that once the swelling goes down it would settle.. But now that it's been a month.. I'm starting to feel a bit hopeless. Even after one month.. does this glabella area keep settling down? I used to hear a lot that I had a nice impression, but now people only say things like.. I look a bit strong. I look slightly fierce.. My soft, approachable image is gone.. The nasal tip is so, so pretty... glabella, oh glabella.. Why are you so high... I really hope you do it to suit your own face, without being greedy.. Especially for those who have a lot of tissue on the nose and extra room.. I think you need to explain it even better. Doctors may think there is a lot of room in the nose and that they can raise it more, so they can make it higher. Today is the day I go to the hospital.. I felt frustrated, so I wrote a few words..