My double eyelid surgery went wrong and I seriously wanted to die, but when I told my mom, I ended up getting her permission. But my dad is kind of, how should I put it, strict? Anyway, I’m also from outside Seoul, and last time my mom and I went up to Seoul together and could only visit two places, so this time I made consultation appointments at four places in Seoul. If I leave at dawn, my dad will find out, so my mom said she wouldn’t mention plastic surgery and would just say we were going out, but my dad caught on and said if I’m getting plastic surgery, he won’t help with the money and won’t send me to college. What do I seriously do? I need revision surgery, but I don’t want to live like this either, and the revision surgery cost isn’t easy to manage either... Everyone, what should I do? Ha.....
sgha Oh no How about saving money through a part-time job after you go to college and doing it during vacation?? Or if your mother says she’ll give you money, you could retake the entrance exam and earn your college tuition yourself through part-time work.. I think it could be somewhat okay if you apply for scholarships + take out student loans, but aside from that, the only option is to persuade your father... If you don’t want to go to college before the revision surgery, there’s also the option of taking a leave of absence and working part-time.
익명 I think it would be better to just tell the truth and get permission.. Why is your father so against it? Seeing you mention college, I’m guessing you’re a minor, but try begging him sincerely, saying honestly that the surgery went wrong and you’re so upset and it keeps bothering you, that even when you try not to care, the way people look at you stresses you out so much, and that if you just have this one surgery, you won’t bring it up anymore and will focus on studying.. If you go that far, wouldn’t your father at least listen? Or you could go to college, work part-time, save money, and do it then.. First, talk with your parents.
뾱뺙뾱 But anyway, if you get double eyelid surgery, your parents will find out. Like the comment above said, I think the best way is to speak honestly and persuade them
그레이프멜로니 If he won’t help with the money, tell him you’ll do it even if you have to earn the money yourself. Seriously, make up your mind like that.
익명 [@sgha] Thank you for the sincere advice Actually, if I receive a national scholarship, I won’t really have to pay college tuition.. So I also feel really sorry about asking my father for money, so I was planning to use the money I had saved in my bank account, plus the money from not going on the Australia trip my father said he’d send me on if I got into college. It suddenly came up at dawn, so from my dad’s perspective it must have seemed ridiculous, and he doesn’t know these circumstances either, so after I go to the consultations, I’m going to talk with my dad.. Thank you
익명 [@] My double eyelid surgery went wrong, so I had it done one more time as an after-service repair, but my dad opposes it because he thinks I’ve had double eyelid surgery too many times. I also had orthodontic treatment, went to dermatology a lot, and there were lots of expenses, so that’s probably why. I have an older sister too.. So I think that’s why he opposed it. I brought it up suddenly, so I’m going to try to persuade him!!
익명 [@그레이프멜로니] Yeah, I have a little money saved in my bank account too, so I have to do it somehow
익명 [@] Yeah~ Still, seeing that you’re also trying to understand your father’s feelings makes you seem warm-hearted haha. I hope you explain it well, succeed with the revision surgery, and become even prettier!
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