Ah!!,, I’m sick of double eyelids

I had buried-suture double eyelid surgery at a famous clinic in Yeoksam 2 years ago, but one side almost completely came undone last year, so they did a partial incision for free. But this time again, it does not look defined; it feels weak, blurry and unfocused, so I am going to have revision surgery again. Even the partial incision feels like a buried-suture method. I really like that it looks natural, but I do not know how many revision surgeries this makes. It feels like such a waste of time, and I worry that the skin on my eyelids might end up ruined and ragged,, all stretched out That place is really natural, and the line is so pretty.. The downside is that it is too natural,, it is not defined, and I wonder if the doctor is too cautious,, or maybe being too guarded.. Also, I guess my eyes themselves do not have very strong opening power. It is not ptosis,, so why is it like this? My mom also says they do not look defined and that I should do them again. Do I really need to do a full incision? My eyes are on the long side, and I wonder if doing an epicanthoplasty would make the line more defined while opening the inner corners, so I am thinking of getting epicanthoplasty. I am also thinking of getting my nose done, and that place seems to make the nasal line slightly upturned like a traditional Korean beoseon sock shape. My nose is not very long either, so I think I may need costal cartilage rather than silicone.. If I want a nose like Han Go-eun or Jun Ji-hyun, I also want to know which clinics pursue that kind of line. And to make it like theirs, what method should be used for the procedure? Also, please recommend which clinics are good for eyes that look natural but still defined~