Director J seems to have very firm aesthetic standards of their own. They strongly said that canthoplasty + ptosis correction, which I had not planned on, absolutely had to be done, using a somewhat intimidating way of speaking as if I had a serious external flaw. I went to nearly ten places, and except for this hospital’s consultation, most said they could achieve the result I wanted without canthoplasty. Not a single hospital said canthoplasty was essential rather than optional. I felt that my opinion and the direction I was pursuing were not respected.
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