I went for breast consultations at Glam and UBA last week First, starting with UBA, this place felt closer to a breast clinic than a plastic surgery clinic. On the day I went for my consultation too, it seemed like there were more people getting breast screenings than breast augmentation consultations, and I also saw a foreigner leaving after having surgery there. A blonde older lady... I don't know if it had gone incredibly well or what, but she kept saying thank you like crazy as she left lololololol. I guess they’re good at surgery.
Even the consultant didn’t feel like a typical plastic surgery clinic consultant, but more like an older nurse at a neighborhood clinic. Maybe because of that, there was no pushing, and she didn’t seem to have any intention of even bringing up things like a reservation deposit. As for what’s good or what’s okay, the consultant didn’t get involved at all. Instead, the consultation with the director went on for quite a while, but it wasn’t a consultation that really hit me emotionally. He carefully checked everything like the inframammary fold length, distance between the nipples, breast size, skin/flesh quality, and breast pocket! He talked about the issues with my own breasts and said something like this amount would probably work..? Honestly, I think the 10,000 won consultation fee was basically for the 3D virtual simulation, but I suddenly thought that a version of me with larger breasts didn’t really look that pretty lolololol I’m 167 cm tall and weigh 53-54 kg, but my upper torso rib cage is about 67 cm. My upper body is very slim, but just having breasts didn’t make my figure look dramatically prettier... My breasts are quite wide-set to begin with, and the breastbone between my breasts shows a lot, so even if I make them bigger, I don’t think I’d get that I-shaped cleavage, you know? My waist is already thin and my pelvis is wide too (waist 61 cm, pelvis 93 cm), but even if I got breast surgery, I didn’t feel like my original strong points would stand out moreㅜ So I guess my passion for breast surgery cooled off a little. This isn’t the director’s fault, but once I looked at my body type objectively... I started wondering, is it really right to get surgery because of a man?
Honestly, I’m a full A cup, so compared with other people getting surgery, I’m not exactly flat, but I was planning to get breast surgery because someone I liked told me my breasts were small and my self-esteem dropped so, so much. But after surgery, they’d be different from natural breasts anyway, right? Then I felt like that jerk would just criticize them again for being surgically enhanced breasts. So I seriously thought about whether I could really exchange 10 million won of my own money and my health for the sake of a man lololololol damn I feel like I’d keep worrying about my breasts during sex in the future too, and honestly I have a timid personality, so when I wear clothes that emphasize my body, it really burdens me when older men or men stare, and I’m not the kind of person who can just calmly brush off those gazes. So if my breasts got even bigger, I wondered whether I could handle that kind of attention, and anyway I ended up thinking about a lot of things. The consultation itself wasn’t bad. The price didn’t seem very different from other clinics either, but there doesn’t seem to be much aftercare.
Glam was, as everyone can tell from clinic reviews, definitely a clinic carried by Consultant Jina lololol Consultant Jina explained a lot in a very humane way and even gave me dating advice(?) lololol it was so funny. When I said I was thinking about breast surgery because of a man, she said guys like that will criticize you whether you do it or not, and genuinely advised me to meet a kind man lololol I know that too, damn it, but what am I supposed to do when that doesn’t workㅠㅠㅠ Someone please teach me how to forget a bad guy,,,, anyway Other plastic surgery clinics talked like everything would be possible, but the Glam consultant was the only one who told me that even if I did it, it wouldn’t be that different from my current breast shape. Because my breasts are very wide-set, I have a pigeon chest, and my breasts sag, if I put in implants, my breast shape would stay the same and only get a little bigger. She also said because of issues like sexual sensation, if I’m doing surgery because of a man, she recommends not doing it at all. She praised me a lot, saying I’m already pretty enough just as I am. She said someone like me might actually have a harder time mentally after surgery,, Hearing that there made me feel like I snapped back to reality a bit. It became a chance for me to think again about why I was trying to get breast surgery. I’ve lived 3n years so far and never really had a big complex, hardship, or sadness because of my breasts, so I wondered whether getting surgery is really right, and anyway my thoughts got really complicated. Even if I get surgery, I won’t get I-shaped cleavage like others anyway (because the distance between my nipples is so wide), and since I have some base breast tissue + I’d be using small implants, it would look more natural than others, but when lying down, the implants would inevitably show. She told me honestly like that. And when I finished the consultation and came out, there was a woman sitting on the sofa. She was someone who had surgery at 9 that morning. But she looked so, so fine and didn’t seem to be in pain at all. It really seems like they’re genuinely good at surgery. Director Oh Jae-won’s explanation wasn’t exactly friendly, but it did seem like it would be safe. If I do it, I think this place would be my first choice.
I’ll probably go to Next, Eight, Ryan, Eton, and MD next, but I’ve become a bit skeptical about breast surgeryㅠㅠ Thank you all for reading, and if anyone is planning to get breast surgery, I think it would be good to spend a whole day thinking about what you’ll gain and lose after breast surgery.