Constant obstacles after cheekbone surgery lol

How did you overcome it, everyone who had cheekbone surgery? Is there anyone else like me First of all, I work at a hotel If I put my hair up, I look like a Saw doll, so I made a big decision and had surgery on the afternoon of the 13th. I’m totally satisfied with the surgery!!!!! But every single day of recovery is an event. 1. My live-in boyfriend who was away on a business trip (hereafter, that guy) secretly found out and suddenly showed up. He said he’d come either on the evening of the 15th or the morning of the 16th, for sure But why did he show up on the evening of the 14th.. and even start a video call, which he normally never does.. Fortunately, that guy is a total nighttime cosmetic surgery nerd. “Your eyes look swollen after your first-ever skin Botox??! Ha ha ha” He fought with me hard after that, but I let it pass! (I always get Botox secretly lol) 2. We’re both heavy drinkers by nature, and he kept offering me alcohol. After forehead Botox, I don’t drink for at least 3-5 days?! But he kept offering beer, saying it should be fine.. Normally, even if I catch a cold, I don’t take medicine and can still have a glass or two of beer with him.. I really did this to myself... I had no choice but to drink (I’m the type who notices things very quickly, so if I hadn’t drunk, he would have started interrogating me right away..) I’m honestly still terrified it might cause inflammation 3. A hot night. This is 19+ stuff.. but it’s serious My mouth obviously can’t open properly yet.. that guy has a very high sex drive and is a bit big too.. We sometimes enjoy finishing with a little lip action...^^ And that occasional time was the morning of the 15th?! I seriously thought I was going to die. And even before writing this.. I’m cursing. (The pressure in my face also went up, so I was burning up) 4. That guy loves meat. I really hate dying. It’s because rice digests slowly for me too, and I’m a vegetable lover, but that guy is a huge meat lover and always tries to get me to eat at least 100g somehow. But what was the pumpkin porridge doing at home, and where did the pumpkin juice come from? For now I got past it with help from my mom, but I couldn’t get past the meat. On the evening of the 15th, I ate a huge galbitang. No, I mean.. I just pretended to chew and swallowed it. Today was even more insane. I ate pork charcoal-grilled ribs.. He mixed rice into doenjang stew and gave me a bite, too? I seriously drank 3 liters of water.. The moment I ate, the area under my eyes swelled up, and there was no answer. (I was freaking out that even a little bitten meat might cause incomplete bone healing ㄷㄷㄷ) 5. Recovery medicine. That guy is the type who hardly even goes to the bathroom because of his weird gum habit, so after cheekbone surgery he couldn’t take the prescribed medicine on schedule.. (Will I even recover?) 6. Arm pillow. When I sleep, I always absolutely sleep with my arm as a pillow. Whether I hate it or not, that guy likes it. I had asked another doctor in advance and they said it was okay, but still, one side swelled up more So I pretended I had a stiff neck, but then he used the other arm.. I swear. (Even though the pins are fixed, incomplete bone healing is really scary ㄷㄷㄷㄷㄷ) Still, everyone, I haven’t been caught... My parents didn’t know either lol I really love the doctor. The compression band was luckily similar to one I already had at home, so I’m using it to reduce swelling. But the mental stress from everything that happened over those 3 days after surgery is so huge Especially in the hot-night part, I had no choice but to open my mouth a little with a “kuang,” so I’m scared whether recovery is going fast or going wrong. The hospital opens on the 18th, so I’m planning to go then. Phew.. Thanks for reading this long post For everyone who does it secretly, fighting. You can avoid getting caught!